LOCATE THE ELBOW
Did you ever notice how smoothly and predictably most things flow in life? Then, suddenly, out of left field, without any warning or apparent action on your part, something comes screaming into your life to upset, distract, or even to ruin it? Generally it helps to recognize the contributing factors to this "sudden, unexpected turn of fate". We can try to understand how our own actions and lack of them have set up the relationships that make the current upset not only understandable, but even predictable.
Its amazing how powerful we are. We can set actions into place with
only a few words or even a glance.
For our own peace of mind and sanity, its important to recognize our own part in creating our dramas, how we unconsciously reach out and pull these upsets onto ourselves --- in other words,
LOCATE THE ELBOW !